Are you an outside success but a secret inner mess?
Lindsey is scared, frustrated, and overwhelmed, all at the same time.
Her marriage is struggling, her house is a mess, she can’t get her eating habits under control, and she feels like a failure of a mother.
She has this dream within her. Things she wants to do, yet she finds herself bogged down with stress and overwhelm. Even depression at times. She feels stuck and doesn't know how to get out of the ruts she finds herself in.
Life is hard for Lindsey. But it should’t be, because on paper, it looks good.
House, marriage, kids, cars, clothes, all the necessities one would need, and then some. She knows that her life is envied by others, yet he finds it oddly unfulfilling.
On the outside she looks like a success, but on the inside, she knows she’s a secret inner mess.
It’s her little secret and she’s afraid for anyone to find out.
Her hair is always done, make up is on point, and her family looks picture perfect, literally. She lives in an illusion. On the surface all looks fine and dandy, but under her smile it’s another story. Few know the truth.
Many leaders are like Lindsey. Successful in some ways, while other areas desperately need repair.
It’s easy to pour yourself into work, especially when you love what you do. It’s rewarding to go all-in on your health and fitness goals, as you sweat away relationship frustrations. But succeeding in these areas, at the expense of your mental health or relationships will be less than fulfilling.
Many upgrade their cars, homes, bodies and jobs but how many people intentionally upgrade their thought life and friendship circle? These two things will have the greatest impact on who you become and the kind of life you will have.
Your future is dependant on what you feed our mind and who you hang with.
So let’s explore what a fulfilling life is. I refer to it as heaven-on-earth. Here’s my definition.
Heaven-on-earth is a life that over-delivers. This is a life that impresses, where you believe how fortunate you’ve been. Living a life of heaven-on-earth means you understand who you are and what you are designed to do. It’s a life where you pursue your goals passionately and live with confidence.
This is where marriages are healthy, you're proud of how you've raised (or are raising) your children, and your home life is an atmosphere of love, happiness, laughter and growth. It’s a life where you experience satisfaction, fulfillment and contentment on a regular basis. Where you count your blessings, live with gratefulness and find yourself constantly thankful for what you have.
You love your days, are pleased with the life you’ve built, and look forward to a future living out your wildest dreams. When you experience heaven-on- earth, joy and peace are your closest companions and you'll be an inspiration to everyone around you.
Creating heaven-on-earth is my specialty. There is nothing more fulfilling than helping people overcome overwhelm, stress and frustration while equipping them with the tools to build a life of happiness, healthy and fulfillment. I want you to know, a life like this is available for everyone who lives intentionally but it’s only those who mix intention with endurance who'll arrive.
How can I be so certain?
Because laws govern our world. They are stable, consistent, and predictable. They will work for anyone, anywhere, no matter who you are.
